Bad News
So the last few nights I haven’t been falling asleep right away as I have for the last few months since J and I moved in together. Why you ask? Because I’m moving all the furniture around in the new place in my minds eye. What will go where? What colours will the rooms be? When can I call the upholsterer to cover our lounge suite with new fabric. After a while J asked me to stop waking him up because no, he doesn’t know where we’ll put the damn Tupperware and he’s sure that the fish tank will fit against the far wall. Excited much?
Moving on….
So you remember in this post where I said that my I made an appointment for my dad at the Dr? Turns out he has high cholesterol and possibly Diabetes. Right now he’s at the hospital for more tests. I’m not sure how I should feel about this. J suffers from high cholesterol and he does take chronic medication for it. The thing is, I know both of these diseases are actually quite deadly in the event that it’s not managed and maintained correctly. This is how the conversation went yesterday after he got back from the Dr’s office.
Me: So what did the Dr say, will you live? (half jokingly)
Dad: Yes, but not very well.
Me: What do you mean?
Dad: I have high cholesterol and apparently I’m showing signs of Diabetes. Please make an appointment for me at the hospital, I have more tests that I have to take before they do the actual diagnoses.
Me:(Feelling panic rising) You know that you’ll have to adjust your whole lifestyle now. I really want you to walk me down the aisle and see my babies. If and when I get that far. And you really have to stop smoking.
Dad: I know. (crushing out his cigarette)
So that’s the gist of it. He’s at the hospital right now, the tests take about three hours. Thank God he doesn’t have high blood pressure also because apparently all three of those diseases together are a death sentence. I’m not going to panic, or over react until we know exactly what’s wrong. Maybe now he’ll realise he’s just a mere mortal like all of us. The thing that has me scared is that my grandfather died because of Diabetes, he went into a coma and never woke up. Like Bridget Jones said. ‘Scared shitless, but you know, perky.’
On a lighter note here are some search engine terms that I found quite amusing.
‘Lets Smartie Party’ - Yeah, lets P A R T Y! Everyone, bring smarties!
‘I’m fat and my knees hurt’ - I’m sorry. See a Dr.
‘Women smashing bugs barefooted’ - Hey, I hate bugs too, more power to you!
‘I’m hungry’ - Me too, me too. *sigh*
‘Girl does smelly poop in loo’ - There is something really wrong with you. See a Dr.
i hope he feels much better soon!
my dad had hyperthyroidism diagnosed last year. it was a long difficult and painful journey, but he’s much better now. and he’s quit smoking too. nothing is impossible, just stay positive, and encourage him to change his lifestyle.
stay strong!
Sorry to hear about your dad. Hope he gets better soon! Will pray for him.
I second Odette. Encourage him to change his lifestyle and stay positive. *hugs*
Sorry about your dad. Sounds like you are good for him though and will help keep him healthy! Those things are difficult but not untreatable as long as he takes care of himself.
That cracked me up about waking up J to ask where to put the tupperware! My bf hates it when I do stuff like that. He falls asleep right away and I get my best thinking done while trying to sleep!
Loved the search terms!
I’m sorry to hear about your dad, but at least you got him to the dr’s so now they can start treating it. (((hugs)))
Oh Jane,
SO sorry about your dad, my mom went thru a scare like that with her heart last year and let me tell you it has been nothing but a good thing. It woke her up to the way she was eating and now she is a healthy cook and eater and a great exerciser.
One thing that I know has helped her is that our family has made it a point to be supportive by taking out junk from family outings and healthier choices when eating with her.
Well, except the cheesecake for Mother’s Day. Oops.
Oh girl, I’m sorry. On a really really really {{*3 “really’s” is REALLY GOOD!}} really good note; there has been such in advancement in the treatment, management, and maintenance of diabetes. Not to say that it’s not a major disease, because it is, and untreated it can turn into your worst enemy. I know a few with diabetes and 2 have worn a monitor that is actually attached to their abdomen and gives the insulin without getting stuck every time! Also, an alarm will go off if they are low on insulin, etc. I don’t know it all, for sure, but I do know a few who do have it. I’m praying for you and your family! I’ll send up major good thoughts!
The search terms are hilarious. One that stuck out was ‘I’m fat and my knees hurt’ - and you say, “I’m sorry. See a Dr.”
Oh Lord, you are a funny girl
Well, the best situation is that you dad takes responsibility for himself and starts eating better. If he does it well, his diabetes might go away and his cholesterol may go down without needing a prescription! More fruits and veggies for him! And exercise!
I’m sorry that your dad is not doing so well. Everyone is right though, it’s better to know what is wrong so he can manage it. Not that it takes your stress away. I’ll be thinking about you. Good luck to both of you.
Aw… I hope everything turns out fine with your dad and that he isn’t too far along. =( My granddad died because of diabetes too, and a couple of other complications that probably were a result of his diabetes. Ah well. He passed away in his sleep though, so that was good that he didn’t suffer much. =( Both my parents have high cholesterol and blood pressure I think. And they’re both taking meds for it I think. So yea, I think I know what you mean. I didn’t know all three would be a death sentence though. O.O Hm. -shifty eyes-
Aww Nic, I’m so sorry, my friend. My father was diagnosed with high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and pre-diabetes. But then he started exercising more and eating better, and now he’s no longer pre-diabetic. I think his cholesterol has gone down too, and I know his blood pressure isn’t as bad. So hopefully with just some diet and exercise, your dad will become healthier. It would really help if he quit smoking, but I know that’s a terribly hard habit to break. He can and he will be just fine if he puts his mind to it. *HUGS*
Sorry to hear about your dad, it’s a good job you sent him to the doctors! My dad has diabetes and although he has changed his lifestyle he wasn’t willing at first and hasn’t fully commited to it. However, I think your dad listens to you and you should definitely encourage him to do it.
aww sorry to hear about your dad. its tough. i know my mom is sick too. =( im sending positive vibes your way. because i believe in the power of positive thinking!
A lot of your dad’s problems could be managed just with some lifestyle changes. I hope that the extra tests he is doing at the hospital don’t show anything too serious.
Happy to hear about the apartment girl. I’m going to move this year too…can you find me a new place to live?
Miss keeping up with all your goings on. My life has been entirely too busy lately.
Eish. That’s rough. I’ll be praying for you and him. But as many people have mentioned - there’s lots he can do and treatments are good. Besides, my grandad is 82 and he smoked for 40 years, drank like a fish, has high blood pressure and a family history of heart disease (all 7 of his brothers died from hear attacks), and today he’s fit as a fiddle and looks about 65. There’s hope!